Chikondi, sichidzasiya

Ndiwe wekha amene ndili naye m'dziko lino lodzaza ndi zinthu zambiri.

Ndinakumana ndi mwamuna wanga mu 1996. Panthawiyo, kudzera mu kudziwitsidwa kwa mnzanga, tinakonza zoti tikumane kunyumba kwa wachibale wanga. Ndikukumbukira pamene ndinali kutsanulira madzi kwa woyambitsa chibwenzi, ndipo chikhocho chinagwa pansi mwangozi. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti galasi silinasweke ndipo madzi sanatulutse dontho. Mlamu wanga wamkulu anati mosangalala: "chizindikiro chabwino! Uwu uyenera kukhala ukwati wabwino, ndipo inu nonse awiri mudzapambana!" Titamva izi, tonsefe tili ndi manyazi pang'ono, koma mbewu za chikondi zabzalidwa mwakachetechete m'mitima ya wina ndi mnzake.

“Anthu ena amanena kuti chikondi ndi zaka zana za kusungulumwa, mpaka mutakumana ndi munthu amene angakutetezeni mosagwedezeka, ndipo panthawiyo kusungulumwa konse kumakhala ndi njira yobwerera.” Ine ndine wamkulu m'banja mwathu. Kupatula ndalama zambiri zomwe ndimapeza pogulitsa zovala, ndimafuna kusunga ndalama zothandizira kulera ang'onoang'ono anga awiri kuti apite ku koleji.
Pamene mwamuna wanga Qi ankagwira ntchito ku Songyuan Oilfield, ankapuma miyezi isanu ndi umodzi iliyonse. Titakumananso, Qi anandipatsa chiphaso cha malipiro ake. Panthawiyo, ndinali wotsimikiza kuti sindinasankhe munthu wolakwika. Kumukwatira kunandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala.

Popanda chikondi chachikulu, ukwati wathu unachitika pa February 20, 1998.
Pa Julayi 5 chaka chotsatira, mwana wathu woyamba wamwamuna Nai Xuan anabadwa.
Popeza tonse tili ndi ntchito, timayenera kubweretsa mwana wathu wamwamuna wa miyezi isanu ndi itatu kumidzi kwa agogo ake. Nthawi zina ndikapita kuntchito usiku, ndimasowa ana anga ndikafika kunyumba, choncho ndimakwera taxi ndikubwerera madzulo, ndikubweretsa zokhwasula-khwasula za ufa wa mkaka ndikubwerera mwachangu.

Chifukwa cha mavuto a m'nyumba, timayenera kuwerengera kuti tigule malasha, ndipo nthawi zina timayenera kudula nkhuni kuti tiphike. Mu nthawi yovuta kwambiri, kuchuluka kwa chakudya pa sabata ndi chidutswa cha tofu. Tsiku lililonse pakhoza kukhala ndiwo zamasamba zobiriwira ndi chidutswa cha malasha, chomwe ndi kasupe wathu.
Kunali kozizira kwambiri m'nyengo yozizira moti ine ndi mwana wanga tinadzuka nthawi ya 4 koloko m'mawa, ndipo mwamuna wanga anadzuka n’kutiyatsira chitofu.
Chaka china, pamene nyumba yobwereka inagwetsedwa mwachangu, ine ndi mwana wanga tinayenera kusamuka.
Panthawiyo, foni inalibe, ndipo Qi sakanatha kulankhulana naye kuntchito. Atabwerera kunyumba kwake, tinali titapita. Tinkafunitsitsa kufunsa za malo athu tisanalandire nkhani kuchokera kwa mwini sitolo yaying'ono.
Qi analumbira mumtima mwake mobisa kuti adzapatsa amayi athu ndi amayi anga nyumba yawoyawo! Pakadali pano, tinabwereka nyumba zosungiramo zinthu zakale, nyumba zogona alendo ndi matabwa, ndipo pomaliza pake tinakhala ndi nyumba yathu yaying'ono, ndipo sitolo yogulitsa zovala inakula pang'onopang'ono kuchoka pa kauntala kufika pa masitolo anayi.
Masiku amenewo osasangalatsa akhala zokumbukira zosaiwalika kwambiri m'moyo.
Moyo nthawi zonse umakhala ndi chisangalalo ndi chisoni.
Zaka zingapo zapitazo, kufufuza kwanga thupi kunapeza kuti ndinali ndi vuto la msambo wochuluka komanso kupweteka m'chiuno ndi m'mimba.
Dokotala wa matenda a akazi wa m'deralo anandiuza kuti opaleshoni yochotsa chiberekero inali yofunika kuti munthu alandire chithandizo chokwanira cha leiomyoma.
Titamva kuti ultrasound ya HIFU yowunikira kwambiri yosavulaza imatha kusunga chiberekero ndipo panalibe bala mu opaleshoni, tinapezanso chiyembekezo.
Ntchito ya Director Chen Qian inayenda bwino kwambiri kotero kuti tinabwerera kumudzi kwathu tsiku lotsatira titapuma pang'ono.
Tsopano msambo wanga wachepa, ndipo zizindikiro zanga za m'maganizo zachepa kwambiri.
Chifukwa cha gulu la Doctor Chen, ndinatha kusunga chiberekero ndikupitiriza kukhala mkazi wathunthu.
Zikomo, dokotala. Zikomo, wokondedwa wanga, chifukwa cha chisamaliro chanu ndi kukhala nanu kwa zaka zambiri!