Chikondi, sichidzatha

Ndiwe wekha wa ine m’dziko lamitundumitundu.

Ndinakumana ndi mwamuna wanga mu 1996. Panthaŵiyo, kupyolera mwa mnzanga wina, analinganiza kukhala ndi chibwenzi kunyumba kwa wachibale wanga.Ndimakumbukira ndikuthira madzi oyambitsa, ndipo chikhocho chinagwera pansi mwangozi.chodabwitsa n’chakuti galasilo silinaswe ndipo madziwo sanagwe ngakhale dontho.Mlamu wanga wamkulu ananena mosangalala kuti: “Chizindikiro chabwino!Umenewu uyenera kukhala ukwati wabwino, ndipo nonse awiri mwatsimikiza kuti mukwanitsa!” Titamva izi, tonse timachita manyazi pang’ono, koma mbewu za chikondi zabzalidwa mwakachetechete m’mitima mwa wina ndi mnzake.

“Anthu ena amati chikondi ndi zaka zana za kusungulumwa, kufikira mutakumana ndi munthu amene angakutetezeni mosasunthika, ndipo panthaŵiyo kusungulumwa konseko kuli ndi njira yobwereramo.”Ine ndine wamkulu m’banja langa.Kuwonjezera pa ndalama zambiri zimene ndinkapeza pogulitsa zovala, ndinkafuna kusunga ndalama zolera azing’ono anga aŵiri kuti apite ku koleji.
Pamene mwamuna wanga Qi ankagwira ntchito ku Songyuan Oilfield, ankapuma theka lililonse la mwezi.Titakumananso, Qi adandipatsa chiphaso chake cha malipiro.Panthawiyo, ndinali wotsimikiza kuti sindinasankhe munthu wolakwika.Kukwatiwa naye kunandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala.

Popanda kukondana kwambiri, ukwati wathu unachitika pa February 20, 1998.
Pa July 5 chaka chotsatira, mwana wathu woyamba Nai Xuan anabadwa.
Popeza tonse tili ndi ntchito, tiyenera kubweretsa mwana wathu wamwamuna wa miyezi isanu ndi itatu kumudzi kwa agogo ake.Nthaŵi zina pambuyo pa tsiku lotanganidwa, ndimasowa kwenikweni ana anga ndikafika kunyumba usiku, chotero ndimatenga takisi ndi kubwerera madzulo, ndikutenga zokhwasula-khwasula za ufa wa mkaka ndi kubwereranso mofulumira.

Chifukwa cha umphawi wa m’nyumba, timaŵerengera kuti tigule malasha, ndipo nthaŵi zina timadula nkhuni kuti tiphike.Mu nthawi yovuta kwambiri, kuchuluka kwa chakudya mu sabata ndi chidutswa cha tofu.Tsiku lililonse pakhoza kukhala masamba obiriwira ochepa komanso chidutswa cha malasha, chomwe ndi kasupe wathu.
Kunkazizira kwambiri m’nyengo yozizira moti ine ndi mwana wanga tinadzuka 4 koloko m’maŵa, ndipo mwamuna wanga anadzuka n’kutiyatsira chitofu.
Chaka china, nyumba yobwereka itagwetsedwa mwamsanga, ine ndi mwana wanga tinayenera kusamuka.
Panthawiyo, panalibe foni yam'manja, ndipo Qi sankatha kulankhulana naye kuntchito.Atabwerera kunyumba kwake, tinalipo.Tinkafunitsitsa kuti tifufuze tisanamve nkhani kuchokera kwa mwini wake wa kasitolo kakang'ono.
Qi analumbira mobisa mumtima mwake kuti adzapatsa mayi athu ndi mayi anga nyumba yawoyawo!Panthawiyi, tinachita lendi nkhokwe, nyumba zogonamo ndi matabwa, ndipo pomalizira pake tinali ndi nyumba yathuyathu yaing’ono, ndipo sitolo ya zovala inakula pang’onopang’ono kuchoka pa kauntala kufika pa mashopu anayi.
Masiku omvetsa chisoni amenewo akhala zinthu zosaiŵalika kwambiri m’moyo.
Moyo nthawi zonse umatsagana ndi chisangalalo ndi chisoni.
Zaka zingapo zapitazo, kufufuza kwanga kwa thupi kunapeza kuti ndinali kudwala uterine leiomyoma.Ndinasokonezedwa ndi kusamba kwadzaoneni ndi kuwawa kwa m’chiuno ndi m’mimba.
Dokotala wakumaloko anandiuza kuti opaleshoni yochotsa leiomyoma ndi yofunikira kuti athe kuchiza matenda onse.
Titamva kuti HIFU ya high-focus non invasive ultrasound ingateteze chiberekero ndipo panalibe chilonda pa opaleshoniyo, tinawonanso chiyembekezo.
Opaleshoni ya Director Chen Qian inali yopambana kwambiri kotero kuti tinathamangira kubwerera kumudzi kwathu tsiku lotsatira titapuma pang'ono.
Tsopano msambo wanga mwachiwonekere wachepa, ndipo zizindikiro zanga zodzimvera chisoni ndizochepa kwambiri.
Chifukwa cha gulu la Doctor Chen, ndinatha kusunga chiberekero ndikupitiriza kukhala mkazi wathunthu.
Zikomo adokotala.Zikomo, wokondedwa wanga, chifukwa cha chisamaliro chanu ndi kampani pazaka zambiri!